This bit written by me Lily. Hello everyone I thought it might be an idea to have someone “interview” me and post it as a blog. So early this evening I met with xxxxx and here we are, I am answering his questions and queries he thinks some gentlemen might want to know.
- Lily, you don’t do outcalls, why not?
Basically, I don’t need to, or want too. I like the familiar. I like candles, a tidy setting, clean setting, music, everything that “sets the tone” for a warm and sensual playtime. I have done outcalls and I don’t mean to be rude but some men have no “home pride” and it’s really uncomfortable. Plus, I am really time poor so the travel time would be ridiculously costly on top so I just don’t bother. I can’t see this changing in the foreseeable future either.
- On one particular punters site you have been bagged for a stringent verification process, why do you have it set up the way you do?
I am not available to gentlemen I know absolutely nothing about. IN a nutshell it’s about safety primarily, discretion and discretion as well. I am selective in the company I keep.
- Is there a type of client you particularly enjoy, do you like the younger, middle or older age group?
I think with generalities there is always exceptions. Generalising, I would say the middle age group. Getting along with someone and cultivating sexual chemistry for me is more often the man’s demeanor, although a good after shave goes a long way. Also, sometimes I get really surprised by when I have great sex. It is often with people who perhaps I don’t find physically appealing but they have a great, considerate touch and the way they do things is just really nice, and attractive.
- How do you create different “looks” for Lily, and what is your favourite “look” personally?
Well, I have a great photographer, Carmen who is really good to work with. We have done a fair few photoshoots together. I sometimes wear tan, sometimes I am Lily white. I can be a red-head, blonde, brunette, short hair, long hair, medium length, high pony tail, whatever I am trying to achieve at the time. I like all different styles of fashion. I probably like “girl next door” best. Also, that kind of look seems to be popular. I have done a photoshoot with B and D gear but lots of men don’t like it, too harsh and “fetish” like, but I do realise there is a bunch of men who love that look. I think to pull it off well you need to be working in a dungeon type space. I am surprised I don’t get asked more often for some typical “roles” like schoolgirl, I guess I am too “old” for that one lol. I also like just a bikini or a simple dress with high heels. Not so much into the lingerie but I will and do wear it. Due to my civilian endeavors I try to be discreet and that includes with my look. Sometimes I will wear the clothes from my shoot just so there is NO doubt in anyone’s mind I am the girl. I also use different apps to make the photos look interesting or arty or vintage or what I feel like at the time. I also like black and white photos but I have an odd feeling that most men don’t.
- Do you get gifts?
I do, but not that often, probably once or twice a week. I have been given movie voucher’s, lots of flowers and I love flowers, jewelry, chocolate, jars of honey, a pot plant, scent. But gifts aren’t necessary. I have a saying:” We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give”. I love Amazon gift cards, David Jones, Whole Foods and Myer. I haven’t been gifted a private island to call mine yet.
- You are very very easy going. Do you have any rules?
I think every play friend has rules of some kind although they might not necessarily be explained in ads etc., it can become clear through the interaction if boundaries are being pushed. I have two major rules. 1. Don’t be an asshole. It won’t work with me. 2. You must be over 18. I do discriminate though, absolutely 100% I do. I discriminate against sloth and uncouth men, slobbyists, unhygienic men, stinginess and poor manners. Just saying…
- Can clients use you as a reference?
Yes, if the client has seen me within the past 6 months, and also doesn’t abuse the system and doesn’t just say “go to lily Levine’s website”. Guide the person to my email address lavasciousllily1@yahoo.com Thank you.
- What’s the most common question you get?
Hmm that’s a hard one. I don’t really get questions in playtimes. I am fairly sensual and quite interested and focused on the sexual encounter rather than a deep conversation. If there is time left, I usually try to spoil the client with a really good massage. So, I don’t really have one. I get asked via text “you available” all the time. Naturally I don’t respond.
- Do you fake orgasms?
Oh, good question. Lol I am NOT an actress, it’s probably one thing I couldn’t do, or be a stand-up comedian. I would be bad at both. So, no I don’t fake orgasms. I made that mistake in a personal relationship of mine. I had been seeing someone for a number of months and he couldn’t seem to make me climax. It really got him down so one night I faked one. Problem was, I was stuck faking from then on and he didn’t really learn what I liked. It was horrid. I would never do that again as it sets a precedence that is unenjoyable. I am also in an enviable position where about 7-8 years ago I wernt from not really liking to give head, to finding it really, really, like REALLY arousing. I can actually climax without even being touched. Ok, since we are talking frankly, I will tell you something. There are times when I am waiting for a playmate to arrive and I am that aroused…that sometimes I climax just getting the client aroused but I stay quiet because honestly, I don’t think they would believe it. So, I try to “squash it” and not make any noise which is really a challenge for me. I am not embarrassed I think its great, but I don’t want to be disbelieved. It’s just become a real ‘turn on” and once you connect two things strongly together so “giving head and an orgasm” you can think of one and the other occurs. I bloody love it.
- You are quite shy I believe but you write as if you are bold.
I think I am bold but yes, I am reserved in nature. Quite quiet but not rude. I dislike rude and unless someone is rude to me, I like to think I am a really good human. Some men might think they know me because they have met a played with me a few times. That’s not even remotely true. You know about as much as seeing that book but never got around to reading, just glancing at the cover. I love to write and I love being creative. I instantly like a potential playmate who compliments me on my ads. I spent time thinking about them, writing them, how to be unique and different to other playmates as it’s all so same/same. And if I make someone laugh with my different analogies, that’s great.
- Where do you get your ideas from?
From my brain. Things just pop in there. Or, I may see something in my day-to-day life, like a photo or a meme and I think “I can put my own spin on that”. Usually random times, when swimming laps in a pool, trust me that gets pretty boring, so there is thinking time, when I shower, late at night. Believe it or not I have an ad in mind where I am a haunted house. And one where I am a bowling alley. And finally, a Rolex watch. I am not even joking.
**Unfortunately, I ran out of time, but would like to get anon gentleman to re-interview me again as he still has more questions!! I hope you enjoy reading the above. It saved me from having to think up a blog as I haven’t written one in a while. Thank you again.
Thanks Lily for sharing some more of yourself. I think you are an amazing lady.