I do a reasonable amount of role play. In particular, mother/son type stuff or similar. It’s a role play for whatever reason I really enjoy. And I feel I am good at it. It feels really naughty, kinky, “wrong” and so the arousal level is high. Role play in my opinion is best started at the door. So sometimes it’s really difficult, read awkward, when you haven’t met the person before. When you the client front up to meet a lady all kinds of thins are probably going through your mind. Is she fake? Is she not like her photos? Has she used a lot of filters and camera tricks? IS she nice? Is she Asian? Does she really do what she says in her service? Does she REALLY like her work? Will I find her attractive? Will she like me? Will I perform? Am I going to be happy? Will I get “ripped off”? Is she honest or a liar?

So, to add a new dimension “Hi mum” to the greeting can be a challenge. My preference is probably to do it with a gentleman I have met, but it’s not a deal breaker. From the door just makes sense as it’s weird to be talking small talk, “how’s your day”, “how’s the weather” etc. to “Hi son, does baby need some loving” type thing. You get what I’m saying.

However, I have noticed something that I thought I’d blog about because as you know, as human beings with those pesky things called emotions, we almost can’t help them, and they can change at the drop of a hat. I definitely notice that when I’m asked for role play mother/son or anything really, I much prefer it to play out organically. I don’t mind being told a particular scenario type thing. But when a client starts saying “and can you wear this?” (normally that’s fine), and can you say “xxxxxx” and then can you do “xxxx” and then can we “xxxxx” and the say these words, “xxxx” “xxxx” that my sex drive immediately plummets and I start recoiling from the idea.

It’s not something you can help. If you lose interest, you lose interest. And I don’t feel comfortable following such an exact script. It is too “made up”, far too forced and just weird. Whereas if you let it just play out as is does, I feel it is much more fun. I understand that you the paying customer should be able to say what you want. Absolutely! But. If you want the lady to enjoy it, and scripts are a turn off, she can’t help that either! And I’m pretty certain most women would be with me in terms of feeling “too scripted”. I have done robotic appointments before especially in my younger days and they are uncool. Robotic is what I avoid at all costs. It’s not good for you the paying customer, because you can feel and sense it. And it’s not good for a lady’s sense of well-being and happiness.

So, my advice? I guess don’t get too caught up in asking your companion to tick too many boxes. Ask for the main things/lines/words you want to hear or do. But don’t write her a whole script. Keep it more natural, let it ebb and flow and I’m sure it will go well!