Hi there.

I thought I would write and share an article with you on “fetishes you might not even have heard off”! Hey, I joined a kink website just on 6 months ago after being referred to it by a friend (who is not in the sex industry and has no idea I am). It is fascinating!!! So……here is my A-Z that I have come up with. Oh, and by the way. I have learnt NOT to “kink shame”. It’s uncool. Each to their own I say. Because quite often the person doesn’t even know where it came from – it just did!

A: Asshole Cleaning Service. As it sounds, it’s for those who like to use their tongues for cleaning bottoms!

B: Breast Feeding – those adults who like to suckle on lactating or non- lactating women, and those women who enjoy adults sucking on their breasts.

C: Cougar is typically a hot woman of 35 and up, who prefers younger companion(s). Often the draw for the younger party is a woman in her sexual prime and who has worldly knowledge (birth control, sexual awareness and experience, has her “shit together,” etc). The draw for the older woman is the desire to be with someone(s) who is more adventurous, sexually matches her stamina, pleasing to the eye….

D: Dollification – this is when a girl becomes “dollified”. What this means is going into a very deep head space of slavery although not necessarily one of servitude but overall mindlessness with great dependency towards their ‘creator’ / ‘owner’. This would look like a role playing of something inhuman appearing human, or a mind controlled human pet.

E: Erotic Enemas are taken or given for the sexual pleasure of either the giver or the receiver of the erotic enema, or for the sexual pleasure and eroticism of both.

F: Figging refers to the insertion a piece of fresh, peeled ginger into the anus. The ginger causes a strong burning sensation in the anus which usually quickly subsides after removal.

The painful burning sensation is said to be very erotic to the sufferer. The ginger is not only peeled but is usually carved into the shape of a butt plug. If the submissive tightens the muscles of the anus, the sensation becomes more intense. It is often combined with spanking or other impact play.

In addition to use in the anus, ginger can also be applied to the vagina, clitoris, or the urethra where it will cause the same painful burning sensation. No thanks, I’m not putting my hand up for being on the receiving end of this!! (Insert smile).

G. Gas Masks. Yes, this is a thing. Some people have a fetish with gas masks, creating them and wearing them or forcing others to wear them. 

H: Human Furniture. With posing human furniture as art pieces and decorating them like mannequins. Having them maintain a pose for extended periods of time.

I:  For anyone who finds intelligence in another sexy, kinky or down right hot. Or for those who simply enjoy intellectually stimulating discussion of ideas and questions.

“Intelligence” is as defined in the Merriam-Webster Dictionary:

The ability to learn or understand or to deal with new or trying situations: reason also: the skilled use of reason. (2): the ability to apply knowledge to manipulate one’s environment or to think abstractly as measured by objective criteria (such as tests)

J: Japanese Rope bondage (see R, ropes and riggers)

K: For the lover of knee-high socks. The guys who love them and the women who like to wear them!

L: Large labia (and clits) as the two usually go hand in hand. For the lovers of women who are “well endowed”

M: Medical Play. This is for people who get into exams, playing doctor, being patients, enemas, etc. Apparently, castration can also come up! Yikes….

N: Nipple play. Either erotic or evil. Inflicted on you or on others.

O: Outdoors’s sex.  for all those who love doing things in the great outdoors and having sex outdoors. Boating, Hiking, Camping, Hunting, Fishing, Skiing, Sledding, Skating, Kayaking, Bicycling, Roller Blading, Roller Skating, Skate Boarding, Paragliding, Bungee-jumping, Sailing, Boating, Water Skiing, Jet-Skiing, Climbing, Parachuting, Rappelling, Beach, Woods, Desert, Cold, Hot, Day trips, overnights, vacations, living, Gardening etc

P: Pony Play. Anyone who likes, loves, indulges in, or is curious about Pony Play. Pony Play is: Human-to-animal roleplay, a form of erotic roleplay in which one or more participants takes on the role of a pony. It has nothing to do with bestiality!

Q: Queening. A personal favourite of mine! This is the art of female worshipping, of clit and ass. Usually, the woman sits on a throne (queening throne) and the guy is lying under the throne with access to her pussy. He is lying on his back, head in a comfortable sling so he can lick and suck for hours. Queens used to employ slaves to sexually pleasure them.

R: Rope and Riggers. Love rope? From Japanese-style to Western and everything in between! They love rope bondage, ties and share the joy that is rope! This fetish is hugely popular!

S: Silk and Satin. A group for those who love anything satin or silk. It can be clothing, sheets, an old childhood toy, or what have you. We welcome anyone with any kind of inclination towards the finer, softer things in life. 

T: Tickle Torture. From playful to erotic to sadistic. Wow, who knew???? It’s a THING.

U: When the highway patrolman walks over to your car and you are more focused on the shined black boots, the fit of his breeches, the leather of the gun belt and his mirrored shades than you are on the ticket, you probably enjoy Uniform Play. When you picture your significant other cleaning the living room, not in a ratty old robe and slippers, but a latex black and white French maid’s uniform and stilettos, you are probably into Uniform Play. If the thing you remember most from parochial school is either the rolled-up plaid skirts of your female classmates, or the menacing black habit of Sister Margaret as she rapped you on the knuckles for some transgression, you probably enjoy Uniform Play.

Uniforms and the military have been part of BDSM almost since its inception. You’d be surprised the number of people who will not admit to having a uniform fetish, but who admit to being turned on when they view uniform play. Uniforms utilised in play can be military or police or even more service oriented.

V: Vacuum Beds (cited from Wikipedia). A vacuum bed is a device sometimes used in BDSM play. A person is placed in a latex envelope spanned by a frame and a suction pump or floor vacuum removes most of the air in the envelope. The frame can be either a simple rectangle of pierced PVC pipes, joined by PVC joints, or three-dimensional frames of various sizes, with a similar PVC construction.

There are several ways that the vacuum bed can be designed to facilitate breathing. The most common is a tube running from outside of the vacuum bed into the person’s mouth. A second option is a reinforced hole that is positioned so that the mouth protrudes. A third option is a reinforced gasket through which one forces the entire head. Incorporating a related fetish, some vacuum beds use a gas mask to facilitate respiration.

The vacuum bed is both a bondage and sensation device. The user is unable to move significantly (although some wiggling is possible), and is unable to speak or see, depending on the breathing hole used. The sensation of the vacuum bed itself, as well as any other play (stroking, percussion, vibrations), can be pleasurable to some users, and some find experiences much more intense than what would be experienced without the vacuum bed.

The vacuum bed must be used with the aid of another person, as the user cannot control the vacuum itself, nor escape the vacuum bed unaided.

There is also a danger of positional asphyxia, as well as the other dangers associated with bondage activities. For me personally, whilst I can appreciate this, no thanks!

W: Wolf Play. A form of pet play similar to puppy play often using collars, muzzles, leashes, eating from dog bowls, playing fetch and other common aspects of these play types.

X: Sorry everyone. I searched and searched and I got nothing!!!

Y: “Yes, Sir” is a fetish group of slaves who get together to talk about how they worship their master…….

Z: Zentai! A fetish about men wearing very tight spandex lycra suits called Zentai.
The second most popular skin fetish is performed around the world! A curiosity is that 85% are MEN!

And there you have it. Maybe I exposed you to some ideas. Maybe I exposed you to ideas you know you defiantly don’t want to explore. But it’s all interesting isn’t it, what humans find sexually attractive, appealing and arousing.